Grief is a funny thing and will strike at moments that are unexpected.. Last night my son was showing me all the mail and there was a birthday card for Roger and it occurred to me that I was excited to get a card from Grandma.. Waves of sadness came over me as I realized that never again in this life will I get a card from her. I don't care about the card! It was the fact that it was from her.. I miss her. I miss her voice. I am still really sad...